Threesome First-Hand Experience
Probably one of the more difficult parts of planning for a threesome is preparing yourself for watching your wife / girlfriend having sex with someone else. At first, the idea may lead to an instant arousal giving an erection on-demand every time thinking about possible ways it will happen and the idea of someone else having sex with her makes thinking about even the most mundane things very difficult. The idea of someone else having sex with her may seem conflicting, how can extramarital sex be so arousing? At the time, contemplating the idea quickly ends as arousal once again happens. This continues until the time for the threesome approaches the instant erections may begin switching to fear and uncertainty. Leading to confusion, a desire to go slower but realizing she is beginning to find the idea arousing too. Ultimately this leads to a resolution that usually involves accepting his partner is beginning to find the idea of having sex with someone else arousing and accepting that their relationship will forever change. In this article I will cover two separate threesome experiences and if anyone would like to share their experience, please feel free to add a comment at the bottom of this article.
This experience actually happened first and it was our first threesome experience together and it did not instantly happen. Instead it took months of nurturing before occurring. It occurred while we were living in an apartment complex near downtown, in a rural urban mid-west town. In a state where farm animals out number humans by a 100:1. The apartment complex was only three buildings standing side-by-side that were primarily studio and 1 bedroom apartments that primarily offered month-to-month lease. Most of the people who lived there worked at nearby by businesses and due to the apartments being small, many of the tenants were single male.
Since there was a small courtyard, during summer she would lay outside in her two piece bikini and guys naturally flirted with her. After she would come inside, she would tell me about her flirting. Her flirting provided some substance for us and it allowed us to explore the idea of some form of threesome. Due to the nature of the complex there was a high-turnover of tenants and many did not stay long. This did not allow planning some for some form of threesome to easily happen. As time went on, there was one guy who flirted with her and she admitted it was arousing for her. This continued for some time and as she told me about their flirting the flirting became more suggestive. She would tell me that he wants to fuck her.
As the flirting became more suggestive it left us with a decision, does it led to something or does it stay innocent? We decided to allow the flirting to go further and to see where it goes. A few weeks later she mentions that this guy wants to have sex with her and agree to let it happen.
When she leaves, she asks me to close the curtains in our apartment since our apartment faced his. During this time I felt quite aroused and very anxious while going through a roller-coaster of emotions. I worried if she was going to be safe and if she was enjoying herself. About two hours later she came back telling me about the experience and we had a great sex that night.
MFM (Straight 3 some)
We both entered our relationship with both of us having previous threesome experience and we understood what we were going to face. She was the one who initially brought up the idea by telling me that she wanted to invite a former boyfriend. Normally this is something that is a red flag for me. In this instance she stated they never had sex and always wondered what it would be like. Plus it had been a few years since they saw each other and from here body language it was obvious she was being sincere.
The time from us talking about it to it actually happening was very fast, at best a few days. It did not give me a lot of time to dwell on everything that could go wrong and it did not give us a lot of time to set up boundaries.
He came over a few nights later. We spent the time talking and having a good time. Then my wife started undressing in front of us and we all knew what was going to happen next. We all went to our bedroom and they interacted while I caressed her.
Thinking back to experience, I do tend to believe I felt a little fearful of what it meant for our relationship but I knew everything would be alright. Soon he slid he long hard cock into her and they went at it for a few minutes. It was an arousing sight for me. Right in front of me, my wife was having sex with another man and it was arousing. I did not get upset and I did not feel any jealousy. He then came and we stayed in the bedroom for a while after that. Then we all got dressed, had some coffee in the kitchen, and he left.
As I look back to this experience, I chose this experience because it demonstrates given enough time the good aspects are remembered and it demonstrates that not every threesome experience leads to a relationship ending. In my opinion, this experience was about trust and about moving our relationship towards a more mature relationship.
Both of these experiences worked out well for us due to communication and trust. I believe the couple’s cuckolding experience was a way for us to push our boundaries and to explore if this was an activity that we wanted to include. After that experience we had our next experience, the threesome. This time we knew what to expect and we were able to make this experience work for us.
I am not, in any way, advocating that anyone who reads this will have the same success. Instead, I am trying to highlight the timing, the emotions, and the end result from having this type of experience. It is important to understanding communication, trust, and level of comfort all play a role in having a threesome.