Erika Foxx Interview


Introduction

I want to take the time to thank Erika Foxx for taking the time in answering my questions. Also, I hope you will find her interview interesting and finally hope this interview will introduce you to a new erotic author that is worth following.

Meet Erika Foxx

My favorite stories are always the ones that have characters that I can relate to, and they’re in some situation that makes them believable people that somehow tests their love, or causes them to fall in love. And then hopefully along the way they end up having passionate, hot sex! And those are the kinds of books I like to write, too!

I remember the first time I realized that my mind was such a powerful source of arousal. I was sitting in the grass studying during my first year of college with a girl that was taking the same class. She kept pointing out the hot, shirtless guys walking by, muttering things that I thought “good” girls would never say! And then she said something that has stuck with me to this day…”He’s my fantasy for tonight, Erika.” I must have looked like she was speaking in a foreign language and she asked, “Don’t you ever fantasize about hot guys like that?” I felt my cheeks flush and I shook my head ‘no’ because I really never HAD fantasized like that…yet šŸ˜‰

After that day, I began to think about guys and sex in ways I never had done before. Since then, I’m not ashamed to admit that I’ve had a lot of “fantasy” nights with some of the hottest guys I’ve ever seen. But nothing ever can take the place of a warm body šŸ˜‰

Fortunately for me, my high school sweetheart came back into my life about this time. I not only got to fantasize about him before we eventually got married, but now I get to fantasize WITH him, too! We are madly in love, and he is so supportive of my writing. And over time, I found my muse for writing erotica. And she’s a very naughty, slutty woman!

In our free time we love spending time together outdoors hiking and camping and bike riding, and we enjoy spoiling our two Yorkies.

Briefly tell us about your childhood? Where did you grow? Was there an inspirational adult figure when growing up?

I was just a typical, boring middle class kid growing up. I grew up in the upper Midwest in the U.S. in a very small town. My grandparents were very inspirational to me growing up. They always encouraged me in everything I did.

What is a happy memory from childhood?

Christmas time gave me some of my favorite memories, mostly from family and friends getting together to play games, talk and just enjoy spending time together.

What was school like for you? How far did you go in your education?

I was quite the little nerd in school, and I loved being one of the smartest kids in the school. I was always the good kid, never getting in trouble for anything.

I continued on with my education after high school, ultimately through graduate school.

Tell us something that we may not know about you?

It might surprise you given my avocation in writing erotica, but I was a virgin until my wedding night. Thatā€™s not to say I hadnā€™t participated in some other forms of sex play, though!

Have you ever met someone famous? If so, who? Tells us about it? Did it change you?

Iā€™ve never met anyone famous ;( …yet!

Who, either living or dead, inspires you?

Itā€™s not one single person really, more of a ā€˜classā€™ of people.Ā Ā  Anyone that goes after their dreams and never lets anything stop them is always inspirational.

Has a book ever impacted you? If so, what book? How did it impact you? What did you do differently after reading it?

Yes, most definitely! Believe it or not, it was Steven Kingā€™s book On Writing. I had read a few of his books, and I marvelled at how good a story teller he is. Whether you like his genre or not, the man knows how to weave a great tale! So when I read On Writing, I was taken with his thought on how stories are like archaeological digs, and that a writerā€™s job is to excavate the story and put flesh on the buried bones. After reading that, I paid much more attention to my characters and I ā€œunearthedā€ their stories instead of trying to impose on them what I thought they should be doing or saying. In other words, I followed them around and started writing down what they did.

The other thing I learned from that book was the idea that I needed to find my muse. And Iā€™ve discovered that mine is a pretty naughty girl…really a slut, to be honest. I fought her for a long time, being the ā€œgoodā€ girl. But she wouldnā€™t stop making my character want to do dirty things to each other, and that bothered me for a long time. I couldnā€™t make sense of where it was coming from. When I read that book, I realized that I should start using her as an asset instead of a liability! When I let her loose, boy did my stories take a decidedly erotic turn!

Are you currently writing anything? Can you share an overview of the story? Do you have a target release date?

Yes, Iā€™m currently working on the first book of what I hope to expand into a series. Itā€™s a story of a young Victorian-era maid that has been released from her duties, and she is being secreted away to the employ of another, more demanding lord because of an unseemly ā€˜incidentā€™. The story is my first in the BDSM realm, and I plan to publish the first book sometime in January 2015.

How long have you been writing?

Since high school. I got started when I took a class in creative writing, and I was hooked. I wrote a lot of romantic stuff, and it was fun but it was pretty bad, to be honest.

How often do you write? How long do you write?

My goal is to always write something every day, but to be honest I really end up writing in fits and starts. Iā€™ve found that if I sit down to write every day, and my muse is being the slutty bitch she can be, Iā€™ll just write garbage because Iā€™m writing for the sake of writing and not for unearthing the story. If the characters donā€™t want me to follow them, itā€™s kind of hard to do that!

So, when those moments come around, Iā€™ll spend time writing tweets for my followers on Twitter and spend some time researching what Iā€™m writing at the time. Right now, itā€™s BDSM and Iā€™m finding it both arousing and interesting. Iā€™m not sure if itā€™s something Iā€™d like to try personally, but you never know!

As far as how long I write, it depends. If the characters are demanding me to follow them, Iā€™ll write until they stop leading me around. The longest session I can remember was about twelve hours.

How did you start out in writing?

As I mentioned earlier, I took a creative writing course in high schoolā€”the first of many! But just over a year ago, I decided to try publishing some of my stories on Amazon.

Where do you find your inspiration for writing?

I get inspiration in some of the strangest situations. I might be shopping and see an attractive couple arm-in-arm, and BOOM! My muse throws this vision of the couple into my mind, and theyā€™re now naked and sheā€™s leading him along by his huge, erect cock. That might become a scene later on in a story.

Sometimes itā€™s a photo, or a movie, or even a book. When I really find myself needing inspiration, or if Iā€™m stuck with something and I really feel the urge to write something erotic, Iā€™ll find some random porn clip online and write a description of the sex Iā€™m watching. It feels like priming a pump, and then things start to flow. Itā€™s also a good way to find new ways of describing sex.

How do you come up with your stories?

Iā€™m also a reader of erotica, romance novels and all kinds of other good fiction, and that feeds my imagination and story ideas. I donā€™t know how it happens, but an idea will just seem to form in my mind. Itā€™s usually a character that starts telling me a story, and it just seems to flow from that. I keep a journal for writing down plot and story ideas, just so I donā€™t forget them.

How much time a week or a month do you spend writing?

I try to write a minimum of four to six hours per week, with my goal being at least an hour every day. Maybe Iā€™m not as anal about that as I should be, but I like writing to be organic for me.

All of the books you have written, which one is your favorite? Why?

My favorite is ā€œA Taste for Kylie.ā€ I loved writing her, probably because sheā€™s a lot like me. Sheā€™s got a prim and proper side, but deep down sheā€™s hiding a strong sexual urge. And sheā€™s got a deep love for her husband and her marriage, and will do anything to keep that love and romance alive.

Your books seem to touch on the subject of making fantasies come true, have you ever have a fantasy come true?

I have, yes. I had always wanted to make love outdoors, and one weekend while hiking I finally convinced my hubby to give it a try! It took some convincing with my tongue, but he gave in and we had some of the best sex weā€™ve ever had!

Your books seem to touch on the subject of doing something taboo. Have you ever done anything taboo?

Iā€™ve never done anything in reality that would be considered taboo, but Iā€™ve done some pretty raunchy things in my mind that might land me in jail if I ever really did them!

What is the easiest part of writing for you?

It didnā€™t start out that way, but writing dialog is the easiest for me. I just listen to the characters and write down what they say! Itā€™s usually how I start a story, with the dialog. I find it easier to add the rest after I know what theyā€™ve said.

What is the most difficult part of writing?

Facing a blank screen. When your characters stop talking or doing anything, itā€™s the most lonely and frustrating feeling in the world.

What is the biggest writing challenge you have faced?

For me, itā€™s making the time to write. Perhaps someday if I decide to pursue being published by a publisher, itā€™d be deadlines.

How do you come up with your characters?

Honestly, I donā€™t know how they suddenly form in my head, but thatā€™s how it happens. Itā€™s almost like watching a fog start to materialize into a human form in my mind, complete with facial features and body type and hair and eyes and personality. Sometimes it happens instantly, and sometimes it can take days.

If there is one character you can choose to say is your favorite who would you choose? Why?

Again, my favorite character to date is Kylie McCann from my interracial mĆ©nage series, but Iā€™m really starting to like a character Iā€™m writing now for the Victorian-era BDSM series Iā€™m writing. Sheā€™s also a lot like me in some ways.

What character has been the most difficult to develop, write? Why?

Itā€™s one Iā€™m writing about now for my new series. Heā€™s the lord of the new manor that my maid character has been sent to, and heā€™s dark and brooding and wonā€™t let me get inside his head very easily. But Iā€™m working him!

Do you try to put a message in your books? If so, what do you believe it is? How would the reader know the message?

The only strong message I have how the power of a strong relationship is very erotic. When people are hopelessly in love and would do anything to give pleasure to each other, in whatever form, I think thatā€™s so sexy. And I try to incorporate that in some way in the stories I write. In my short-short series ā€œThe Erotic Adventures of Dex and Tasia,ā€ the two of them are madly in love with each other, but they find such erotic joy in making the other happy. Even when Tasia wants Dex to have sex with another man, he obliges because he knows itā€™s going to make her happy. That kind of love makes me melt!

Do you have a recurring symbolism or a motif?

No symbolism, but I do like building sexual tension between the characters in the stories I write. I guess that would qualify as a motif!

How do you use conflict in telling the story?

For my short-shorts, the only conflict is that the characters want to come, period. I wrote them as quickies for readers that want something short and sweet and arousing to read.

But for my other stories, definitely. Letā€™s face it, nobody wants to read a book about characters that are perfect and never have any problems in life or obstacles to overcome. So I try to use conflict when it seems like things are going to smoothly in my stories. Sometimes Iā€™ll go back after Iā€™ve written for a while and realize Iā€™m reading a fairy tale. In that case, Iā€™ll try to find a wedge point that I can stick in some kind of trouble or problem, or another character even. Something to upset the apple cart.

As a writer, itā€™s fun to add those conflicts and see how the characters react.

I did that in my recent book, ā€œBehind Him All The Way.ā€ A happily married couple has been having a pre-arranged ā€œfun nightā€ of sexual exploration to keep their sex life hot. The wife is conflicted about the suggestion by her girlfriend to try pegging her husband, and thereā€™s some wonderful conflict and tension between the husband and wife when heā€™s confronted by his beautiful wife adorned with a huge rubber strap-on cock.

Advice

Can you share any advice for anyone considering self-publishing?

Sure, and remember that this is coming from someone thatā€™s only been self-publishing for about a year. Iā€™m still learning more every day!

Itā€™s really quite easy today for anyone to write anything and sell it on Amazon or Smashwords or Barnes & Noble. In fact itā€™s downright simple, and you can even pay people to get everything formatted and ready for a very small fee. If all you want to do is say youā€™ve got a book for sale on Amazon, no problem.

But if you want to earn a living as a self-published writer, be ready to spend some significant time and money in advertising and marketing on social media, book marketing services, etc. And make sure that youā€™re marketing a book that people want to read. A slick media campaign selling a poorly written book will fail just as badly as a well-written book not marketed at all. In other words, have your writing edited. First by you, and then by a reputable editor. It makes all the difference in the world.

Last, make sure that you have a website where you can begin to build a loyal readership by offering an opt-in and other freebies. On ErikaFoxxBooks.com, I offer a free ebook in exchange for an email address, as well as some free erotica Iā€™ve written. Once you have a list of loyal readers, you can market your future writing to them and continue to build your audience.

Do you have a passage (no more than 1 page) that you want to share?

Sure! Itā€™s from ā€œA Taste for Fourā€ from my Seductive Couples: Interracial Menage series. In this third book, Kylie and Jackson McCann have each had the pleasure of having sex with a black partner…Kylie with Tristan, a Jamaican bartender, and Jackson with Summer, Tristanā€™s head chef at his restaurant. Now, Tristan and Summer are seducing the McCanns!

Excerpt

An Excerpt from ā€œA Taste For Fourā€ by Erika Foxx…

ā€œYou know, we donā€™t need them.ā€ Summer said suggestively. She lay down and poured a bit of wine into her navel. ā€œWhat do you think?ā€ Kylie lapped the wine gently with her tongue, then took the bottle from Summer. She dripped the wine over her breasts, into Summerā€™s waiting mouth. Before Kylie knew what was happening, Summerā€™s head had disappeared between her legs. Kylie felt the womanā€™s mouth explore her pussy; it felt better than any oral sex Kylie had ever had. Summer did exactly what Kylie would have done if she could pleasure herself.

Jackson and Tristan watched the scene before them with amazement. The sight of the two women got them both hard again, but neither wanted to interrupt the action.

ā€œPut your legs over my head.ā€ Kylie moaned. She felt as if she was having a soft, constant orgasm and she wanted to return the favor. Kylie licked Summer tentatively, surprised at the way she tasted. Unlike Kylieā€™s juices, Summerā€™s had a sweet, apple like flavor. Kylie dove in enthusiastically, mimicking the movements of Summerā€™s mouth with her own. The soft, constant waves of pleasure running through Kylieā€™s body intensified, and soon she was writhing in ecstasy. As Kylie erupted, Summerā€™s climax filled her mouth. Summer turned herself upright and rested her head next to Kylieā€™s.

The women curled together to relax, but the men had something different in mind. The show had left them both longing for a second release. Tristan kneeled next to Kylie, his erection bobbing above her face. Jackson did the same next to Summer.

ā€œThat was quite a show you two put on.ā€ Jackson complimented the women.

ā€œYeah, I think we need some oral action after watching that.ā€ Tristan agreed.

ā€œWhat do you think Summer? Should we give them what they want?ā€ Kylie teased.

ā€œI donā€™t knowā€¦ do you think they can handle something new?ā€ Summerā€™s eyes darted from Jacksonā€™s cock to Tristanā€™s hand. Kylie instantly understood the suggestion.

ā€œItā€™s a night of trying new things.ā€ Kylie smiled. The women rose to their knees and sat the men next to each other on the floor. Summer gripped Jacksonā€™s cock with her right hand, and guided Tristanā€™s hand over with her left. Kylie did the same in reverse. The men each instinctively pulled away when they realized what the women had planned.

ā€œNow, now,ā€ Summer scolded playfully, ā€œyou two got a show. Now we want one.ā€

ā€œJust use your hands. Summer and I will take care of the rest, if you cooperate.ā€ Kylie promised suggestively. Both men exhaled deeply before gripping the otherā€™s shaft. Jackson had to admit that the sensation felt nice. It became even better when Summer began flicking her tongue against the head of his cock. Each woman bobbed up and down on their partnerā€™s cock, using one free hand to direct the movement of the menā€™s hands.

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Do you have anything you want to add?

Iā€™d just like to thank you for the opportunity to tell you and your readers a little about myself. I encourage your readers to visit my website, read my blog stories, check out some of my favorite sites, grab a free ebook and follow me on Twitter and Facebook! Stay in love and lust, and thank you again!

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Facebook: http://facebook.com/ErikaFoxxErotica

Twitter: http://twitter.com/ErikaFoxxBooks

Website: ErikaFoxxBooks.com

Amazon Book link(s):

Seductive Couples: Interracial Romance MenƔge Series (BWWM BMWW)

A Taste for Kylie

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KTUXXI2/

A Taste for Jackson

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KTUXVS4/

A Taste for Four

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KTS6ZWK/

Seductive Couples: Interracial Romance MenƔge Boxed Set

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KZYVMXU

Dex and Tasiaā€™s Erotic Adventures Series

Waking Up

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N975B6O

Watching You Watching Me

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N975DUI

Helping Mia

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N96QP3S

Interrupted

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N9I9WTU

Single Books

Behind Him All The Way

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ND8MJPA

Amazon Author Page: http://amazon.com/author/erikafoxx

How to make a fantasy come true: My interview with Erika Foxx


Today, I am announcing my first author interview with erotic author Erika Foxx. Some may know her as the author of such books as aĀ Behind Him All the Way,Ā  Waking Up Book 1: Dex and Tasia’s Erotic Adventures. or the timeless classic Taste for Kyle. I cannot be any happier since the interview comes a few weeks before the holidays and it gives my readers a chance to buy themselves something special or help to cut down their shopping list of gifts to buy. Even if you do not buy a book it is a great opportunity to learn more about an author who writes about making sexual fantasies coming true.

As for my reason for doing this interview, I feel, Erika Foxx is a talented author whose writing interest is very similar to the topics on this site and I feel Taste for Kyle, Taste for Jackson and Taste for Four are stories that go the heart of topics here. I believe, by doing this interview it will help my readers discover the world of erotic literature and what better way to ease into the conversation of having a threesome then by giving a book?

When will this interview occur? The interview will go live on 6 December 2014 shortly after midnight GMT or shortly after 16:00 Pacific Time on Friday 5 December 2014 in the United States.

If there is a question you want to ask Erika Foxx please use the below form. Otherwise I hope to see you here where the interview goes live.

The Cuckolding Fetish: When Your Wifeā€™s Cheating Turns You On


A very well written poignant piece regarding cuckolding and relationships.

Nonetheless the author makes two points that I do not completely agree with. First point, is the implied link between cuckolding and cheating. I understand the author is addressing how cheating can be arousing and the spark the reignites a relationship. Nonetheless, I do not believe cuckolding is cheating and I believe they are two entirely separate activities.

Second point is linking cuckolding with BDSM. Regular followers will know, I do accept some cuckolding does fall under the BDSM banner but I do believe there is a second form of cukolding, ‘couples cuckolding,’ that falls outside of the traditional definition of cuckolding.

Anyone who is wanting more information on cuckolding or wanting another perspective on relationships will not be disappointed reading this article.

 

The Cuckolding Fetish: When Your Wifeā€™s Cheating Turns You On.

10 Word Press articles you may have missed during the week of 19 May 2014


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Another week is upon us and time for another list of 10 articles or stories you might have missed. This week there is a lot of variety including stories and information on polyamory.

Highlights

Polyamory Without Rules = Chaos is a well written and insightful article regarding the need for couples who have polyamorous relationships to establish boundaries. Even though the article focuses on polyamorous relationships the article is applicable to any couple desiring a threesome, cuckold, open relationship or foursome.

Power Play and Passion: Consent in the Kink Community is a very well written thought provoking that transcends the topic of sex and touches who we are as people? At the core of the article it asks the question, how much do we have to emotionally detach from people to have sex? Do we have to detach so much that we dehumanize the experience and see those with whom we have sex with as objects instead of humans?

On Cloud 9 and Script for a Threesome are two good stories worth reading.

1) Quad Weekend by Krystalla

2) Polyamaory Without Rules = Chaos? by Loving Without Boundaries

3) Safe Sex and Open Relationships: You Can Have your Cake and eat it too by Dancetinyfox

4) Power Play and Passion: Consent in the Kink Community by Polysingleish

5) Chapter 2 Michelle’s Journey of Becoming a Hot Wife by Threesomes and Variations

6) A Fantasy Shared by Cummins Girl

7) Script for a Threesome Will I be So Lucky? by Libido Bootcamp

8) Who is Better by Kinky Tiger

9) Poly Is Poly Isn’t by Diary of a Sadist

10) On Cloud 9 by Sublifedelight

April’s list

Week of 22 April 2014

Week of 15 April 2014

Week of 29 April 2014

May’s list

Week of 5 May 2014

Week of 12 May 2014

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Chapter 1 Michelle’s journey of becoming a hot wife


londonStart of our vacation

Michelleā€™s summer 2009 vacation with me brings many fond memories. We were ā€˜on the top of the worldā€™ with Michelleā€™s promotion and my successful business. As a way to celebrate our new success we decided to drive four hours to Las Vegas for a week-long getaway and at the time I did not know what would transpire.

We left on 15 July and that day is permanently etched in my mind. It was a hot sunny day without a cloud in the sky. The type of day when being out side in the sun for more 10 minutes mean you are dripping with sweat and the anything that can cool you down is a very cold beer. Because it was so hot outside we decided to take our BMW with it rag-top roof so we can drive with it down.

About an hour after leaving Michelle turns to me with her long black her blowing in the, and her sunglasses covering her blue eyes and her oval face with perfectly flawless skin. As we travel 70 mph down the interstate, she grabs my arm in order to grab my attention. Looking down and away from me she sounds nervous when she says, ā€œI have something to ask and I am not sure what you are going to say.ā€

At that moment my heart begins racing and stricken with fear, ā€œWhat can she be wanting?ā€ I know we have been busy and for the last two years our careers took precedent over our relationship. Not sure I knew what she was going to say, I acted as though I was focusing on the road even though there was not another car for at least a mile.

Then there was a bit of playfulness in her voice as her fingers walked up my arm and she lightly grabbed my forearm as she pulled herself into me. Her touch was very welcoming it made me feel close to her and for the first time I in about two years work was the further things from my mind. ā€œI have been thinking maybe this week I could be naughty for you.ā€

I became hard, my breathing increased, and my mind started rushing with many possibilities. It became difficult to concentrate and luckily we were the only car on the road or there might have been an accident. ā€œWhat do you mean?ā€ Sounding surprised and nervous.

ā€œWell,ā€ pausing for a moment, ā€œI have not been completely honest with you.ā€

ā€œHow, so?ā€

ā€œI know how you fantasize about me fucking another man for you in a threesome and I have resisted the idea. Well, lately I have been thinking how great it would feel to have another cock in mean and feel him exploding deep inside me.ā€

If it was not so hot and if I was not driving, I probably would have had an instant orgasm that would made me cum inside of my pants. For the next three hours that is all I could think about happening on our vacation.

Vegas

 

It was mid-afternoon during the hottest part of the day when we arrived at our mid-strip hotel. We entered our hotel and Michelle immediately wanted to shower. After her proclamation in the car I knew I wanted to fuck her right now. ā€œYou can shower once I am done with you.ā€

Throwing her to the bed, I unbutton her white silky blouse and quickly unhooking her bra, exposing her 36 B breasts. The right breast is slightly smaller but when she is aroused her nipples get very erect. As I begin undressing her I notice how smooth her skin feels. It feels delicate and smooth as a rose petal. Too rough it would destroy it. Moving down her abdomen towards her thighs, kissing every inch, I begin sliding her pants off exposing her hairy mound.

Each time I touch it she quivers and gasps for air. I do not move immediately for her pussy. Instead I tease her a bit by kissing and caressing her inner thigh. Watching her tremble each time I touch her.

Once I have thoroughly aroused her, I begin stroking the side of her clit and I see it is quite enlarged. Then I use the tip of my tongue to stroke her clit as I begin to finger her wet moist pussy. The tightness and warmth of it is quite inviting. As I pull my two fingers out her moisture drips from my finger.

By this point I am quite hard and cannot wait no longer. Slowly entering her I can feel her vagina envelope my hard penis. At first I move slow, wanting to savor the image of another guy inside of her and her pussy grasping his shaft as he goes deep in her. Then I envision him uncontrollably thrusting his cock deep in her and her screaming in pleasure. Soon the picture is too much and I explode in her, filling her up with cum.

Other Chapters in this series

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My First Male/Female/Male Threesome


I have read this and it is a good threesome story. The strength of this article is its realism and depth. It show a threesome can happen unexpectedly and it can occur amongst friends. This is a great article for anyone wanting insight into having a threesome or for someone who is looking for a good story to read. Finally, I hope you take the time to read this story from a very talented writer.

 

My First Male/Female/Male Threesome.

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A teaser – A hotwife story Randy, Mark and Mary


I am floating a part of a chapter for my next kindle book. I hope you enjoy.

IMG_8531 updatedChirping of birds, the bright spring sun shining through the bedroom window and Mark making breakfast pulls Mary from her slumber. It is much like an opening scene from a movie where everything seems perfect. A loving and understanding husband putting his wifeā€™s needs before his. The house in a large perfectly groomed yard that is located in a quaint ideal town and ideal non-intrusive neighbors.

As she slowly gets out of bed she realizes her discussion with Mark, last night, regarding seducing Randy made sleeping difficult and contemplates the result of her unannounced visit with Randy later today. In her mind she sees many possible scenarios from him rejecting her to them being in bed naked with Randy being unable to get an erection and the fantasy that always gets her wet, a steamy sweaty orgy with several naked people performing various sexual acts on each other that looks like something from a porno movie. However, she knows Randy is still mourning and the former of her sexy scenarios will most likely be the result. Nonetheless, the thought fills her mind and her thoughts starts shifting about thinking her approach.

Yelling to Mark, ā€œI am not going to wait. I am going to shower and then go over to Randyā€™sā€ About 45 minutes later Mary walks out the door wearing short-white blouse, short black skirt with no panties, black tights, and knee length black leather boots. As she leaves Mark is in the kitchen working from his laptop and does not notice her leave.

Walking next door to Randyā€™s house Martha, the preacherā€™s wife walks out of her house towards the church and yells to Mary, ā€œHi dear arenā€™t you a bit underdressed for this time of year?ā€ Ignoring Martha, Mary knocks on Randyā€™s door.

ā€œA bit early? I was not expecting anyone this early. I am not really dressedā€

ā€œNot to worry.ā€ Mary feels like someone who is about to do their first presentation in a corporate boardroom and unsure how she is going to approach her seduction of Randy. Nervousness grabs her blindly like a young victim walking home though the dark alleys after a night of drinking unaware that her captor is waiting for her. Stuttering with her hands gently trembling, ā€œOh the reason I am here, I am wondering if you have some coffee and sugar we can borrow? We are all out and we just do not have the time to go buy some. If Mark is in the office he will usually buy some on his way home. Since he is working from home he cannot leave.ā€

She knows it is a lie that is leaving her feeling exposed and defenceless. If he lets her inside, how will she proceed? Mary thinks to herself by considering the possibilities. Will it be a steamy fuckfest where they rip of their clothes and have wild passionate sex? Or will the tension build until they release it like a dam releasing water in order to prevent a flood? Maybe he will not pick up on the cues leaving with sugar and coffee? ā€œWhat happens if he reject me? How will I face him? What will the other neighbors think?ā€ To Mary the few moments feel as though an hour has past.

Suspecting Mary is at his door for another reason, Randy thinks to himself, ā€œWhy would she come over wearing a short skirt and leather boots up to her knees to borrow coffee?ā€ He pauses for a moment warmly responding, ā€œCome on in and I will see what I have,ā€ as he smiles at her. Walking inside, in front of Randy she turns facing Randy. ā€œI will be right back,ā€ as he eagerly leaves and pretends looking for the two items she is requesting. She waits a few moments until he enters the kitchen and begins looking for the coffee. Slowly she begins unbuttoning the top three buttons of her blouse, exposing her most of her breasts.

Mary quietly walks and times her entry into the kitchen when he has his back to her. Randy senses she is in the kitchen but continues acting as though he is not aware of her presence. Her presence reminds him meeting his wife for the first time eliciting many different feelings of excitement and wonderment. He begins reaching for the coffee in the cabinet over the stove and Mary walks up behind him wrapping her arms around his chest and pulling him close to her. As she feels his back pressing against her chest, it makes her feel secure. Pulling him into her, Mary feels the softness of his shirt against her bare chest.

ā€œI thought you wanted coffee?ā€ Randy teasingly asks.

With a seductive and vulnerable sounding voice, ā€œI only used that excuse to get through the door because I want you,ā€

ā€œI find you attractive and I have wanted you since I first laid eyes on you.ā€

Randy turning around to face Mary with her coyly smiling at Randy, ā€œI know. We do not tell many people but Mark and I are very much into the lifestyle.ā€ She pauses, unbuttons Randyā€™s jeans, and slides her hands down his pants lightly grabbing his manhood. As she grabs his manhood, she looks him in the eyes sounding confident and aggressive, ā€œHe knows I am here and he knows what I want to do to you.ā€ As she finishes her last word, she can feel his manhood getting very hard, just like a large lead pipe and notices Randy breathing faster. Releasing her grip she looks at him, ā€œNot now you are too excited. You need to wait.ā€

ā€œI am not too excited and I canā€™t wait.ā€ Randy tries leaning forward to kiss Mary and tries pulling her towards him.

Taking a step back, she then takes his hand placing it on her chest, ā€œYou need to learn to wait. The best things as those that are enjoyed over a period of time.ā€

Mary then walks over to his couch, sitting down, and unbuttoning her top two buttons. ā€œIt is getting hot in here. Why donā€™t you come over and join me?ā€

Randy is feeling as though he is running a marathon in a half-hour, ā€œMaybe you would feel more comfortable in the bedroom?ā€

ā€œNot yet, maybe a shower together might be what I need?ā€

Randy walks to the bathroom starting the shower. As he undresses he realizes he has not felt like this for years. The bathroom is a Ā¾ bathroom with shower and it comfortably fits one person standing. Mary undresses in the hall leaving her clothes there. She waits for Randy to get into the shower and she joins him.

ā€œThis is cozy. Let me wash you.ā€ As Mary reaches for the bar of soap she lathers it up. As she does, she notices that is he relatively free of hair on his back and chest. Reaching for his chest she notices it is soft and feels fragile. Gently applying the soap to him she moves in gliding his hand between her thighs. ā€œThis is what I like.ā€ She moves in feeling his erect penis against her thigh and he tires getting closer. ā€œNo need to rush. You must wait,ā€ pausing for a moment, ā€œit is better. Trust me.ā€

A few minutes later they are in the bedroom, her hair still wet, Mary lays on the bed spreading her legs. ā€œWhat are you doing? Are you going to fuck me or what?ā€

ā€œIt has been a while. I am nervous.ā€

ā€œIt is okay, we got all day.ā€

Randy lays next to her and starts slowly feeling her delicate smooth skin. Noticing her nipples are erect and laying waiting for him to take command. She turns to him, gently kissing him and pulling him towards her. He kneels in front of her, bending forward to kiss her, and stroking her face. Mary grabs his hard 5.5ā€ cock looking at him, ā€œI been waiting too long fuck me.ā€

He slides into her noticing how wet and hot she feels. She feels tighter than what his wife felt like and Maryā€™s tightness further arouses him. The tight feeling and remembering his wife, before her death, made him move faster. Mary moved in response to his direction and he could feel a flood of pleasure building within. He cannot hold back much longer and soon he fills her with his cum. Soon he goes limp, pulling out of her, and lying next to her.

Copyright 2014 by Johnny Lavish all rights reserved

Watching my wife having sex with another man


sexy wifeThreesome First-Hand Experience

Introduction

Probably one of the more difficult parts of planning a threesome is preparing yourself for watching your wife / girlfriend having sex with someone else. At first, the idea maybe arousing. Thinking about someone else having sex with her, watching her being pleasured, and knowing you were a part of helping her please her. The imagery and arousal can make thinking about even the most mundane things very difficult.

Then as time passes, the idea of someone else having sex with her may seem scary. In your mind you ask, how can extramarital sex be acceptable? At the time, contemplating the question quickly ends as arousal once again happens. The cornucopia of emotions continues until the threesome approaches and at this point, the thought of going slower becomes a thought since she was hesitant about the idea. That idea is quickly extinguished since she is openly expressing her interest in the idea and how she is wanting the threesome. By now the threesome is near, stopping it now will let down everyone, and after a bit of contemplation stopping it is not what is needed. After more thought accepting threesome and accepting that their relationship will forever change regardless of the outcome.

The above is a generalization of the feelings I went through as my first threesome with my wife approached. In this article I will cover two separate threesome experiences and if anyone would like to share their experience, please feel free to add a comment at the bottom of this article.

Couple’s Cuckolding

This experience actually happenedĀ first and it was our first threesome experience together. It did not instantly happen and it took months of nurturing before it came to fruition. It occurred while we were living in an apartment complex near downtown, in aĀ rural urban mid-west town. In a state where farm animals out number humans by about 100:1. The apartment complex consisted of three two-story buildings standing side-by-side, with a small courtyard, that were primarily studio and 1 bedroom apartments. Most of the people who lived there worked at nearby by businesses and due to the apartments being small, many of the tenants were single males.

Since there was a small courtyard, during summer my wife, Samantha (not her real name), would lay outside in her bikini and men naturally flirted with her. Afterwards she would come inside, she would tell about her flirting. She would tell how she liked the attention and how it made her horny. Her flirting provided some substance for us and it opened up the opportunity to discuss having some type of threesome. Because the complex was primarily single male there was a high-turnover of tenants and many did not stay long. This made planning some for some form of threesome difficult but it did offer the opportunity where we knew they would not be there long. Thereby preventing things from becoming ‘messy’ and complicated.

As time went on, there was one guy who regularly flirted with her and she admitted it was arousing. The flirting became more suggestive and she began telling me that he wants to fuck her. At first she would not consider the idea but as it continued it left us with a decision, does it lead toĀ something or does it stay innocent? We decided to allow the flirting to go further and to see where it goes. A few weeks later she mentions fucking him is something she wants to do and agree to let it happen. Over the next few days we plan it out and she makes the arrangements

When she leaves, she asks me to close the curtains in our apartment since our apartment faced his. During this time I felt quite aroused and very anxious while going through a roller-coaster of emotions. I worried if she was safe and if she was enjoying herself.

About two hours later she came back we talked a few minutes before she took me by the hand to our bedroom. The lights were off and she undressed. Laying next to her she began telling me about the experience. He was not large and uncut. According to her, he caressed her and ‘ate her out’ while fingering her. As she was telling me about her evening she slowly glided my hand between her legs. I could feel it was stretched and sticky then she told meĀ  how he fucked her and how she enjoyed it. That night we had a great sex.

MFMĀ (Straight 3 some)

We both entered our relationship with both of us having previous threesome experience and we understood what we were going to face. She was the one who initially brought up the idea by telling me that she wanted to invite a former boyfriend. Normally this is something that is a red flag for me. In this instance she stated they never had sex and always wondered what it would be like. Plus it had been a few years since they saw each other and from here body language it was obvious she was being sincere.

The time from us talking about it to it actually happening was very fast, at best a few days. It did not give me a lot of time to dwell on everything that could go wrong and it did not give us a lot of time to set up boundaries.

He came over a few nights later. We spent the time talking and having a good time. Then my wife started undressing in front of us and we all knew what was going to happen next. We all went to our bedroom and they interacted while I caressed her.

Thinking back to experience, I do tend to believe I felt a little fearful of what it meant for our relationship but I knew everything would be alright. Soon he slid he long hard cock into her and they went at it for a few minutes. It was an arousing sight for me. Right in front of me, my wife was having sex with another man and it was arousing. I did not get upset and I did not feel any jealousy. He then came and we stayed in the bedroom for a while after that. Then we all got dressed, had some coffee in the kitchen, and he left.

As I look back to this experience, it demonstrates given enough time we remember the good and it demonstrates that not every threesome experience leads to a relationship ending. In my opinion, this experience was about trust and about moving our relationship towards a more mature relationship.

Final Thoughts

Both of these experiences worked out well for us due to communication, trust and the ability to agree on boundaries that worked for us. I believe the couple’s cuckolding experience was a way for us to push our boundaries and to explore if this was an activity that we wanted to include. After that experience we had our next experience, the threesome. This time we knew what to expect and we were able to make this experience work for us.

Furthermore I believe we are the 95% + of couples who dive into the world of threesomes and do not make it a lifestyle. Instead I believe, these experiences happened at a time in our relationship that helped guide us about communication and understand how special we are to each other.

I am not, in any way, advocating that anyone who reads this will have the same success. Instead, I am trying to highlight the timing, the emotions, and the result from having this type of experience. It is important to understanding communication, trust, and level of comfort all play a role in having a threesome.