Will a threesome destroy our relationship?
This author believes a threesome will not necessarily destroy a relationship but this author believes, a threesome can act as a catalyst bringing up underlying relationship issues to the surface faster.
Can a threesome fix a troubled relationship or add spice to it?
A threesome cannot fix a trouble relationship or relationship that has become stagnant. In this type of situation it is likely the threesome will make the relationship worse, not better.
Is inviting an ex or a co-worker a good idea to a threesome?
While a few threesomes might work using an ex or a co-worker, most likely this is an ill-advised choice. This is due to the potential risks they pose to the couple. Typical risks for inviting a co-worker include sexual harassment claims, loss of job, loss of privacy, problems at work, and a greater chance cheating might occur. For an ex the biggest risk is the relationship might restart again leading to cheating or the relationship ending.
My partner becomes quite aroused of the idea of having a threesome during foreplay is it advisable to arrange one and then surprise them with it?
No. There is a difference between fantasy and reality, especially when it comes to threesomes. If your partner has expressed an interest in having a threesome then it is best to speak to them outside of the bedroom and at a time when there is no distractions.
My partner has expressed an interest in having a threesome, have they stopped loving me? Do they want a divorce?
You will need to speak to them if you are concerned. However, in most cases it can be a compliment because they feel secure enough in the relationship and want to explore their boundaries with you. Therefore, it is likely the answer to this question is no.
What is soft-swinging?
Soft-swinging has a variety of definitions but at the core of the definition it means no penetration (oral, vaginal, or anal) by the invited third person.
What are the different types of threesomes?
- Full threesome
- Ménage a trios
- Polyamory: couple with an invited third
- Open relationship
- Fantasy Play / Role Playing
- Friends with Benefits (can be)
My husband / partner wants a mfm threesome, does it mean he is gay?
Most likely no, most threesomes are two male threesomes that are straight. Very few two male threesomes involve male on male activity due to risk of STDs / STIs. If you are in doubt then speak to them about it.
After bringing up the idea, how long does it take before we are ready to have a threesome?
It can take any where from a few weeks to a few years depending on the couple. There are some couples that may ultimately decide a threesome is not for them.
My husband and I want a fmf threesome, is it true that it is difficult to find a single woman to join us?
Reality is very few single women are interested in having a fmf threesome with a couple and those who those that are interested are in very high demand. This means a single woman can be selective in the couple she chooses and it means the couple can spend well over a year searching. Best advice would be to search for another couple that is willing to share the female with you but be ready that they will expect that you reciprocate.
Where can we find a threesome?
There are many places to look for a threesome and many opportunities that happen can lead to a threesome. The challenge is knowing which ones will be fruitful versus being a waste of time. Below are a few suggestions:
- Online dating and threesomes sites.
- There are a few smart phone apps being produced for this type of search and are beginning making it into the market.
- Swingers club (not recommended for those just starting out)
- Swingers party (not recommended for those just starting out)
- Friends (risky and requires a lot of thought)