Sloppy Seconds for Breakfast


 

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Standing up grabbing our white floral print sheet off the bed Yvonne wraps it around her body, and as she wraps it around her body; the morning light coming through the window makes her look like an angel. Yvonne is 32 years old, standing5’ 7”, with flawless silky smooth ashy white skin, mid shoulder length brunette hair, 34 B breasts and has a sultry voice. Turning away from our bed, she walks out of the room and getting to the door she looks back saying in her soft playful voice with big smile lighting up her face, “I am going to finish what we started last night.” As she leaves the room, the feel of the cool morning spring air coming through the open window it feels cold against my exposed skin. The shock of the cold air gently flowing over my skin brings me out of my stupor but it not enough to damper my excitement of what is about to happen.

 

In order for you to understand, why I am still lying in bed, I need to start from the beginning. Last night begins like any date night for us, involving going out for the evening to a movie then out for supper and depending on the time maybe out for drink before going home. Like many other couples, we use date night as a chance to reconnect and have the opportunity to put issues of daily life behind us. Date night for us is our chance to unwind and to put the week behind us allowing us to be a couple for a night. However, the last few weeks have been hectic for us and did not have as much time as we wanted for date night. This week our agreement was to meet at the movie theatre early in order to maximize our time out.

 

It was not until I was outside of the theatre with Yvonne outside of the theatre that I notice Yvonne wearing her short pleaded black skirt, her sheer silky white blouse, black tights, and her black heels. She looked stunning and preparation for tonight left me wondering if something was up. Looking at I her being contemplating if I should make a comment like, “You looking you as though you are wanting some tonight.”

 

From previous experience, I know if my timing is off on a comment and it is taken the wrong way then it would upset the rest of the evening. Instead, I decide to see how the evening transpire and keep quiet, for now.

 

After supper we took another cab to go out for drinks and on our way to the bar, Yvonne turn to me saying, “I noticed you were a bit shock at what I am wearing tonight. I chose this because I want to blow your mind tonight and wanted your imagination to run wild.” Yvonne is right her look really blew my mind and it not long before it begin racing with all of the possibilities. However, it is not long before I extinguish the thought of what is possible tonight because from previous experience Yvonne likes to be a bit of tease by pushing the limit of making me think something is going to happen when it will not happen. Nonetheless, one idea remain with me, Yvonne wants to fulfil the fantasy of me watching while she fucks another guy.

 

There have been a few opportunities in the past to make this fantasy real but Yvonne always gets “cold-feet” after taking a few steps towards going through with it. Nonetheless, since she is in a playful mood, I decide to somewhat push the boundary with her in order to gage where the boundary for tonight exist by saying, “Who knows, you might get lucky tonight.” After saying that, I could see Yvonne’s eyes get wide like a kid on their birthday waiting to open up their presents.

 

Usually after saying something like that to Yvonne, she usually respond with something that let me know that she is just teasing and bring me back to reality, such as “You are the only one I want to fuck tonight,” or “I want to be faithful and would not do that.”

 

This time she did not respond with her typical reply and instead this time she coyly said, “Be careful for what you wishful because it might come true,” after hearing that I know tonight is going to be different.

 

Getting out the cab, we enter the bar. Other than having a relaxing atmosphere and being a place that we frequent for the last five years there is nothing that makes it special. Walking in the music is playing loudly in the background, the lighting is dark, and the tables are several feet from the bar. The number of patrons for a Friday night is not as full as it usually is. As we begin to walk into together Yvonne turns to me saying, “Are you in the mood for some fun?” Yvonne’s face shows both excitement and playfulness.

 

Not sure how to respond I stop and cautiously ask, “What do you mean?”

 

Grabbing my wrist and looking into my eyes she says, “I was thinking maybe we could try to fulfil our fantasy, are you up for it?”

 

I had a 99.9% feeling I know what she meant but if it is what I think she meant then I need to be 100% sure, cautiously I ask again, “What do you mean?”

 

Lacking confidence in her reply she says, “I was thinking, maybe I could go to the bar alone and you could watch from the distance.”

 

Grabbing my curiosity with that statement, I ask her to continue. “Once at the bar I could let a guy buy me a drink, flirt with him and you can watch. Then if he is interested you could introduce yourself and invite us to the table.”

 

Not needing much time to think I agreed by telling her, “I will let you go in first so it appears you are alone.” It was about five minutes later that I enter and sitting at a table where I had a clear view of Yvonne.

 

The table was actually a booth onside with two chairs opposite the booth, which was a good 40’ – 50’ from the bar with an unobstructed view. However, I was not certain if Yvonne could see me and decided not to call attention to myself by staring too much. Since it was not as full, as it normally is on Friday, Yvonne was not attracting the attention that she could attract and beginning to wonder if we left without another male, would she be willing to try again?

 

Looking at the time, I figure I will give her another 10 minutes before saying it is not going to happen, tonight. As I was just about to give up Brad sits next to Yvonne. Brad, I would have to say is about 15 years Yvonne’s senior. He is about 6’2 with primarily gray hair but does show some strands of black hair. His face is beginning to show some age with a few noticeable wrinkles around his eyes and forehead. Build wise he does have some definite muscle definition but is definitely not muscular. Oddly, I never took Yvonne to have an interest in older men as she tends to prefer people closer to her age. Nonetheless, observing them from a distance it is obvious that Brad is taking an immediate interest in Yvonne and Yvonne is reciprocating the interest. Not wanting to ruin anything that might be developing I decide it was best to see where things were going.

 

While waiting to see if the interest continue, I begin contemplating my next step, which either involves playing dumb whereby apologizing to Yvonne for running late forcing her to introduce me or being straightforward inviting Brad to the table. In order to get an idea of what direction I should take, I glance in their direction and observe their interaction. Yvonne has her body turned towards Brad with her chest out, and likewise Brad is facing her with his hand lightly resting on her inner thigh. Usually Yvonne does not let people get that close to her and if anyone invades her personal space, she will pull back from them. Seeing this, I know there is an interest in Brad and know my decision will dictate if things progress. Looking away from them in order not to attract attention, I contemplate what to do. At first, my intuition is leaning towards the former idea but hesitant about it. After thinking about it the difficulties that playing stupid will bring, I opt for the latter since Brad might already see me sitting here watching them from a distance. Moreover, if I opt for the former idea it could mean I turn-off Brad to the idea destroying everything up to this point. Time finally came to go over there, standing up from the table I could feel my legs trembling, my heart racing, and my palms become sweaty from anticipating what may happen next. The walk over to them feels like a 15 minutes walk but the reality is it the walk only took a few seconds. At first neither Yvonne nor Brad notice me standing next to them. Yvonne must have caught a glimpse of me by saying, “Sorry I did not notice you standing there.”

 

“Not a problem… I see you are talking to someone?“ I said while looking at Brad.         “This is my husband, George.”

 

At first, he looks shocked and embarrassed until I say, “not to worry… I have been observing both of you from a distance, would you like to join Yvonne and myself at a table and we can talk some more?”

 

For a minute, Brad pulls back and sits straight indicating to me that he is a bit hesitant. Figuring out that he might be hesitant, I state to Brad, “join us for a drink and if after the drink you want to leave then feel free to leave.” This seems to put Brad at ease and we walk over to the table.

 

Once we arrive at the table Brad and Yvonne sit in the booth with me sitting opposite of them. Going through the typical social pleasantries, Brad’s interest in Yvonne begins increasing. Yvonne is now sitting with her legs apart and Brad’s hand is resting on her inner thigh. This time his hand is underneath her skirt on the outside of her pussy lips and Yvonne’s face appearing flushed from where his hand is resting. A few moments later, Yvonne says she is going to the bathroom and as she does, she lightly touches my hand, looks at me, and smiles. Her silent gesture tells me she wants Brad and I figure it is time to move things forward. After she leaves and I am confident Yvonne is gone, I say to Brad, “Yvonne is quite interested in you and how would you like to come home with us?”

 

Never having done this before I was not sure if Brad will oblige me or if this will ignite a furious reaction, the reaction he gave was not what I was expecting. He takes a few moments before responding with a quiet nervous, “yes.” After hearing yes from Brad it took pressure off of me and I began feeling quite excited for what is about to happen.

 

About a minute after Brad saying yes Yvonne returns and I say, “Hun, I invited Brad to join us for a nightcap at our place, hope you do not mind?”

 

Her eyes became quite large and her face showing excitement as she said, “Silly, why would I mind? It will be fun having Brad over tonight,” with that statement, we leave.

 

Cab arrives, both Brad and Yvonne sit in the back seat, and I decide I will sit in the front seat to see if anything interesting will happen. The cab pulls out of the parking lot and about five minutes from the house, while glancing in the driver’s mirror, I see Brad putting his arm around Yvonne and with that hand, he is caressing Yvonne’s breast. His other hand is under her skirt fingering her pussy and Yvonne was kissing his neck. As we were turning on the street to our house, I said to “Ok kids we are almost home, “and as I said that the cab pulls up to our house. I pay the driver and I began fumbling for the keys to let us inside of the house.

 

Once we were all inside, I close the door, and Yvonne say, “I am going upstairs to change and hun’ why don’t pour us each a cup of wine.”

 

After that, I direct Brad to the living room and tell him, “Make yourself comfortable, I will only be a moment.”

 

After pouring the wine for Brad and I, I enter the living room seeing Brad sitting on the couch and I sit on the chair opposite of Brad. Brad and I start talking about what Yvonne likes in bed. I explain to him that, “Yvonne likes a lot of attention and enjoys foreplay especially being eaten out. If you rush, she will not enjoy it but if you take time to please her, Yvonne’s pussy when she cums will actually grab your cock, which could give you an incredible orgasm,” I explained.

 

“Even if you did not get her that far, she was relatively easy to please,” I said.

 

He then ask if I minded if he fucked her first and I said, “I believe that is what she is expecting.” This talk seems to help Bread relax and I could hear Yvonne moving about upstairs. Hearing her moving about upstairs, I know she was ready for us and I told Brad, “To put down you wine glass and follow me upstairs.”

 

When we got to the top of the stairs, I open the door slowly and says to her, “I hope that you are ready,” and entering the room I can only see the outline of her naked body since she had the room lit with three large cylindrical shaped vanilla scented candles.

 

The smell of the candles was a light mixture of vanilla combined with the smell of heated wax. She motions to Brad to join on the bed and she then puts her hand up in a stop motion, signalling for me to wait. Yvonne says, “Not yet, I want you to watch and enjoy.” Saying that I know she was making a fantasy of ours come true and I became immediately hard.

 

Watching, I could see Yvonne lying on her back with her legs spread in anticipation of what is to come and Brad placing his left knee in between Yvonne’s legs and his right knee outside of Yvonne’s. For the most part Brad was kneeling in front of Yvonne but was leaning a bit forward so that she could undress him. Once she got to his pants he stands up facing her, she rolls on her side to undo his pants and slides his pants with his underwear to the floor. Once they fell to the floor, the silhouette of Brad’s six inches uncut cock is noticeable and once his cock was, exposed Yvonne began sucking it. Yvonne sucking his cock and caressing his balls lasted only a few moments before Brad climbs back on to the bed. Once Brad is on the bed, he begins kissing her neck as he worked his way down to her breasts. Brad starts sucking one of her nipples while caressing the other and rolling the other nipple around in his finger. Then, he begins slowly moving down her and as he did Yvonne quivers with pleasure and begins quietly moaning. Once he is near her pussy, he pauses and he first begin to stroke her inner thigh. As he did this, she began quivering a bit more and moaning a bit louder. Before fingering her pussy and rubbing her engulfed clit, he teases the outside of her pussy.  He does this for a while bring her to brink and then pulling her from it. Then he begins to use his tongue to stimulate her clit as he continues to finger her. As he does this, it is apparent he is enjoying her wetness, enjoying her scent, and enjoying the slight sweet taste it can have. By this time, Yvonne is beginning to have small orgasms and beginning to yell, “This is fucking great, don’t stop. Fuck me now…” Seeing her enjoy this made me even harder, I thought about joining them but there is something erotic about watching this.

 

As Yvonne’s body is quivering from the enjoyment and my heightening arousal, I decide to walk over joining them. I stand at Yvonne’s side where she grabs my hard cock and she begins stroking it as Brad begins eating her out. Yvonne began yelling out, “this is fucking incredible, both of you continue with what you are doing.” I could see that Brad had some pre-cum on his cock by now and can tell from Yvonne’s body posture that she was ready for a good fucking. When Yvonne is ready for a good fucking it means she is very aroused and as she gets closer to cumming her pussy grasps the  hard cock like choking a snake before she cums for about 30 seconds. Since Brad never had that experience, I motion to him it is time for him to enter her otherwise she will cum and he will miss the experience. As he begins to slide into her in a missionary position with him on top, I take a step back to watch. Sliding into her, I hear a wet sloshing like sound, which is usually made when Yvonne is wet when I enter her as we are about to have sex.

 

Yvonne begins yelling, “fuck me… I want you to fuck me hard and don’t stop even when I cum.” By Yvonne saying that, Brad begins lays on top of her hugging her and as he hugs her, he pulls close to him. The pulling lifts her up slightly on the bed and he is thrusting slightly upwards.

 

As he thrusts he beings feverishly fucking her telling her, “you are an incredible fuck, move faster!”

 

After about three hard thrusts form him Yvonne yells out, “fucking yes…,” and a few moments later she slightly arches her back indicating to me she is cumming hard. Brad continues a few more thrusts before he cums too. He lies on top of Yvonne for a few minutes until he goes soft and slides out of her. Finally, he rolls off her lying next to her on her left side.

 

I approach Yvonne on her right side, I can see that her pussy is red from being fucked, it is wide still twitching, and cum is leaking out of her. The smell of cum, which I equate with smelling like ageing fish, and the smell of sweat, permeates the room. Finally, I stand by bed with Yvonne rolling towards me grabbing my cock and it does not take much before I cum over her chest. Feeling a great release, I join Brad and Yvonne on the bed lying on Yvonne’s right side. We lie there for about an hour caressing and kissing Yvonne. Yvonne returns the attention to the both of us.

 

Brad asks if he can stay the night and Yvonne gets up to take him to the guest bedroom next to the bedroom. Yvonne does not immediately return and I can hear some talking. Once she has Brad settled in the bedroom Yvonne comes into the room to ask me, “Would you mind if I fucked Brad in the morning alone? I mean, you would be here in the house but not in the room. I really would like to have his cock one more time.”

 

I replied by saying, “Things so far have worked out great and if that is something you want to do I have no problem with it.” The thought of her fucking Brad alone in the morning makes me hard and again this time she climbs on top of me. Once she is on top we went at like it was out first time and as she moved the bed creaked. After we both came again, she climbs down and we fall asleep.

 

This brings me to the present, laying here naked with no blankets and why I am waiting for Yvonne to return, my reason, I can hear the two of them fucking in the bedroom next to us with Yvonne loudly moaning and once Yvonne is done it will be my turn to have my fun.  I do not know how long she will be but cannot wait until she comes back. What happens after she returns is a story for another day.

 

 

 

Why couples choose cuckolding?


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Introduction

Life is a journey that each of us makes. Along the journey, we find people who join us and sometimes they leave to continue on their path. On the route we travel, feedback from others and learning occurs causing a change in path for our journey. My journey has allowed me to learn more about cuckolding and weave it with my experiences with threesomes. If someone were to ask me, what is one area that my knowledge is increasing form this journey? The response I would give, the biggest evolution of I have seen is my opinion of cuckolding.

Defining Cukolding

Before continuing, it is important to define cuckolding since each person defines it differently. Cuckolding involves the involvement of another person in a relationship either on a short-term or long-term basis that requires consent of the non-participating individual. Furthermore this activity is typically expressed with one individual in the relationship having sex outside of the relationship while the other partner remains monogamous. The reason for this can vary from opening up the relationship, to a domination / submission relationship, or various other reasons. Therefore, I feel cuckolding is best described by using a spectrum definition. A spectrum definition for cuckolding means examining:  the presence or absence of: domination / submission in the relationship, the degree to which  describing the relationship as an open relationship, the length of relationships, and the number of relationships, and the frequency that contact with the other person occurs. Thereby making the definition of cuckolding difficult due to the various ways it is expressed.

For those who have read my writings may know my experience with cuckolding has been with one strand of cuckolding and I have come to appreciate that there are other strands too. From my experience, I feel there is an underlying assumption, that cuckolding and cheating are synonymous. Cheating involves a violation of trust, due to a violation of boundaries and the breakdown of communication that leads one partner to meet their needs outside of the relationship. Whereas cuckolding involves, maintaining trust through an open and honest discussion about the activity. It also involves establishing boundaries, and working as a team to maintain the established boundaries. Therefore, the root of the difference comes from cuckolding is done in the open and done to the extent that the couple is agreeable versus an activity that is done in the cloak of secrecy.

The above definition may seem puzzling to some and I will try to provide a few examples as to how I envision cuckolding. One example is a typical scenario of the male feeling inadequate about penis size or is quite submissive in the relationship. In order for the male to address the inadequacy or to express his submissive nature in the relationship, the couple enters into cuckolding. This scenario will score high on domination / submission along, scoring high with the relationship being whereby the submissive male remains monogamous and scoring high on the other aspects. My feeling this comes about due to the couple waning to incorporate domination / submission into their relationship or it could come about as a way to maintain the relationship.

Another example would be similar to the above example but this time the male half of the couple is dominant with a submissive female partner. I feel, this could come about because the woman is in a high demanding role where she needs to be in control and this is one way for her to loose some control. Alternatively, I feel, this could come about from the couple wanting to have traditional roles and the woman does this not to please her husband. If you were to score this scenario it would score high on domination / submission, high on being an open relationship due to one person remaining monogamous, but scoring as it relates to relationship including number would be lower than the first example since this would most likely be a more controlled situation. Reason for the lower scoring on the number of relationships and length would most likely be due the amount of time needed before the woman agrees and her need to maintain her relationship with her partner.

Third example would be a couple exploring the idea of having sex with someone outside of the relationship. This would, most likely be a one-off or limited time experience that is not regularly repeated. The idea here is to allow one partner, for whatever reason, a chance to explore sex with someone else. This means this type of activity:

  • Is done in the open with their partner’s knowledge and consent
  • The relationship is not opened up since it is done for a limited time
  • There is not a BDSM element operating such as domination or humiliation
  • There is boundaries about the activity
  • There is agreement on how much information is shared.

Scoring this would result in a very low score for domination / submission due to the decision being about exploration. In addition, it would score low on being an open relationship since this experience would maintain emotional monogamy. Finally, it would score low on other aspects since it is about exploring and not maintaining a relationship.  Typically couples that want to explore the idea, try something different, or fulfill a fantasy would pursue this type of scenario.

A final example would be role-playing the idea. This implies that the couple does not physically involve a third person but plays out the idea. When scoring it this would mean domination / submission would be either moderate or low, depending on the scene. Others would be non-existent since there is not the involvement of a third person.

Many readers is at this point may be asking what is the point of this review or essay? The answer to this question is not easy, since there seems to be some confusion about cuckolding and some hostility to it as a subject. The rest of this essay will examine some of the reasons why a couple might consider the idea.

Ideally, I believe, cuckolding is something a couple should consider only after having some type of group sex experience together. Reason for this belief is grounded in the belief that by having the group sex experience a couple understands what is involved, understands if cuckolding is an option for them, and develop communication skills needed to help them work through a cuckolding experience. Now, I realize that we do not live in the ideal world but the real world, which means people / couples do not operate as expected. For couples who do not come to cuckolding as an extension of their group sex experience, I feel, there are several reasons why a couple might choose cuckolding and those reasons are discussed in the rest of this article.

Motivation

In the above paragraphs, I briefly touched on relationship variations where cuckolding might occur and in this section, I will go deeper by talking about motivation for a couple a couple. Motivation, simply put it is the reason why a couple participates in having a cuckold due to the rewards it provides the couple and the rewarding being provided exceeds the risk of having a cuckold.

For example, Couple A (a fictitious couple) who has been married 15 years decides to try cuckolding. The husband, Mark, find the idea of his wife having sex with someone else arousing and his wife, June, decides to provide that experience for him. After having sex with another man, June, comes back telling Mark about it and Mark then has sex with sex. Mark finds his orgasm is intense even though while June is out Mark went through  plethora of emotions from extreme fear to a high state of arousal from imagining what June is doing with her lover. From the experience Mark and June have found they have improved communication and a deeper trust of each other. In this case the motivation for the couple is the positive change in their relationship.

With that said, in the above example change in the relationship is a motivating factor for having a cuckold and it this can be quite a powerful motivator. However there are others, such as wanting to explore the idea, allowing sexual freedom, exploring domination / submission, and other reasons. The reason for motivation, this author feels, will determine to extent the couple will peruse cuckolding.

Reward

This author is not going to get into a Psychology 101 discussion of positive and negative reinforcement, rewards. Instead I will continue with the above example of the couple in the section on Motivation and discuss rewards. Unlike motivation understanding the risk is not necessary. In understanding rewards, the reward must be strong enough to encourage the continuation of the behavior. This means in the above example the rewards for Mark are the emotions he goes through, hearing about his wife’s experience after she comes back, and being able to have sex with her once she returns. For June the rewards includes having sex with someone else, breaking society’s norms, and sex with her husband.

It is obvious from the above example that the rewards being given will diminish over time an as a couple they will have to find other rewards to maintain their motivation for cuckolding. For the above couple, it could be the changes in their relationship may be enough to motivate them as the rewards diminish or it could be, as the rewards diminish, the couple looses their interest in cuckolding. This means their is a relationship between the rewards and motivation.

Society’s Norms

From birth message about roles and relationships bombard us. The messages come from religion, school, observing adults interact, and test our beliefs while searching for a partner that meets our needs. From there we incorporate some, rebel against others, and follow some norms until being able to replace it our belief regarding relationships resulting in a philosophy about what we believe is acceptable in a relationship.

My feeling, one factor that I feel motivates couples towards cuckolding or conversely is the biggest barrier in exploring cuckolding is, societal norms regarding relationships. For many couples adhering to societal norms provides a level of stability, a sense of security, a sense of worth / purpose, and decreased anxiety because they are living within society’s expectations.

Adhering to societal norms does not ensure a successful relationship but can lessen conflict within the relationship, thereby maintaining relationship stability. For couples that choose to divert from societal norms cuckolding becomes a possibility, though not a guarantee. Couples who choose this route may risk being discovered, may risk being spurn by those around them, and may risk isolation if because they chose a different route. However, if a couple can successfully balance the desire to define their relationship based on their values, instead of society’s, along with the anxiety that is created by not strictly adhering to society’s expectation then may find happiness by having more control over their relationship.

Needs

Need differs from a want because a need is something that must occur in order to maintain the relationship. Essentially this means without it, the relationship would cease to exist or at least be fraught with conflict. This can be risky for the relationship, since a need maybe one-sided whereby one person needs it to stay in the relationship while the other person does not. The differing value on the need puts pressure on the other to agree to fulfill the need or risk the relationship ending. Being able to negotiate need and communicate them becomes paramount for the survival of the relationship.

For example, couple B decides to try a cuckold relationship because one of them has a higher sex drive and the other has a low sex drive. Couple B believes by meeting the need of the individual with the high sex drive, by allowing a cuckold to occur, relieves pressure on the individual with the lower sex drive to have sex, thereby maintaining an equilibrium in the relationship. Arguably, it is a need because the couple feel cuckolding is central to maintain the relationship. However, I believe, this is a want since other possibilities exist before considering the option for cuckolding. This type of scenario also raises another issue regarding the impact on the relationship because the lower sex drive may not feel complete because they do not meet their partner’s needs thereby adversely influencing their relationship and it does not address an underlying issue in the relationship the reason for the competing sex drives.

Wants / Exploration

It is easy to confuse needs for wants. In this situation, a want is something that moves the relationship in a different direction and comes from the desire to try something different. This implies a want is not core to keep the relationship viable and it something for consideration. At this point, it is important to mention, a desire to explore is different than replacing something that is missing in the relationship or fix a trouble relationship. If the decision to try cuckolding is to fix or save a failing relationship then it is not want and probably a sign that cuckolding is the wrong choice until the issue is resolved.

Another example, Couple C ( a fictitious couple), appears to be a very typical married couple. They are enjoy trying new things, evaluating them, and then deciding their next step. Fred one day suggest to Melissa that he would like to have her have sex with another male. At first Melissa is shocked but then acquiesces to Fred’s suggestion and meets Tom for a one-off meet, with Fred’s knowledge. Both Fred and Melissa enjoy the experience but decide it is not for them.

Finally, this author feels the difference between a want and need is dependent on the extent to which the relationship depends on meeting it. In the example with Couple B, there was a need in order to maintain the relationship and minimize conflict. Whereas the couple wanting to explore the idea,  Couple C, is a want, since the relationship could continue without trying cuckolding.

Resolution

Under this type of motivation, the couple may want to explore cuckolding in order to resolve a question or a mundane issue that comes up without having an impact on the relationship. A question that cuckolding might be used to resolve would be, “what it would feel like if I did have sex with my first boyfriend?” Another question might be, “What would it be like to have sex with the guy that flirts with me while he takes my order at the coffee shop?” Alternatively, the mundane issue could be one partner not having as much sexual experience as the other, a boyfriend / girlfriend from the past, an attraction to someone outside of the relationship, or another issue.

Compromise: Monogamy versus open relationship

Arguably cuckolding can provide a solution for a couple who wants an open relationship but wants to maintain some level of monogamy. In a cuckolding situation monogamy only remains for the partner who does not participate. This means cuckolding provides a compromise solution between having a threesome and an open relationship.

Conclusion

Life is a journey that provides many detours, dead-ends, scenic routes, and expressways. Every couple that exits on cuckolding will find that cuckolding will take them to different places with some staying on the cuckolding highway. In order for them to stay on the cuckolding highway, there needs to be enough rewards fueling  their motivation for continuing with cuckolding. Without motivation and rewards cuckolding for a couple will end

Lastly, cuckolding is there for the consideration as a tool in a relationship but it does not mean all of us have to partake. Instead it means appreciating the diversity and richness it brings.  This means, someone else’s journey may not be appropriate for us but we understanding their journey means we can better improve ours. By being able to learn form it, we can learn something a bit about ourselves, what motivates us, what  motivates others, and integrate that learning into our lives. As an author I am glad cuckolding is an option because of the richness it can bring and I hope all that read this article can appreciate it too.